Words to live by.....

"We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give" -Winston Churchill

"You must be the change you wish to see in the world" - Mahatma Gandhi

"Once in a while you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at it right" -Grateful Dead

Friday, November 20, 2009

How time flies! I can't believe the Holidays are here! Its been a great fall here in Sandpoint, and we have so enjoyed being home for a while! We did spent some time in Maui with my Dad (check out the pic's below) which was wonderful. The kids love seeing him, as do Mike and I. And there is nothing like water and sand to keep 8 kids happy all day long, then fall into bed asleep nice and early :-) The kids are all doing wonderfully. We are homeschooling this year and the bonding it is creating among the kids is such fun to watch. They are all progressing well academically, and having a great time homeschooling. Its terrific to have them home so much, and to be able to be spontaneous (as in take a 2 week trip to Maui in October :-) and be able to take advantage of having no set school schedule. Freedom!

Mahlia is just thriving, and she is so adored by the whole family. She has gone from not even on the growth charts at 9 months old, to in the 55% at 13th months. She came home wearing a 3-6 month size (at 9 months) and is now in a size 12-18 months at 13 months! Talk about catching up! She is now crawling all over the place at lightning speed, and into EVERYTHING! Good thing I have 7 other sets of eyes on her! She is starting to try to pull up to standing, she'll walk before too long. And she's babbling away, with a few words thrown in now and then as well. Amazing. I can't tell you how head over heals in love we ALL are with her. She is such a blessing!

So as I sit here on National Adoption Day, I feel so grateful that Mike and I have been lucky enough to adopt the 6 children that have joined our family through adoption. What LUCKY parents we are to be blessed by adoption, and by all 10 of our wonderful children.
If there is any part of you considering adoption, please please go for it, you'll be glad you did!

Peace and Love,
Jennifer













Sunday, July 26, 2009

Baby Mahlia is finally home! My dear cousin Kim (who accompanied me on the trip to Ethiopia), Mahlia, and I arrived back in the USA on July 11th. We spend a week at my Mom's house in Princeton, NJ, which was great. Mike had flown with our youngest 7 kids from Spokane to NJ (no easy feat!) to meet us there and Lauren and Sean drove from VA and NY to be there as well. It was wonderful to have all 10 kids together! We had such a fun week, and Mahlia was the center of attention!

We got home to Sandpoint on the 18th of July and Mahlia has fit into our family like a glove. The kids dote on her and love her to pieces. She is already a Daddy's girl! Mike and I are loving having a baby again, she is such a delight! Poor baby had Giardia, but we are 1/2 way though the course of meds to clear it up, and she is already feeling so much better. She is such a happy and sweet baby girl, we are so lucky!!!!

The trip to Addis Ababa was amazing. Kim and I so enjoyed the city, and the people were so kind and helpful. I miss it and am already looking forward to a return trip one day! I posted some pic's below of our time in Addis and NJ. More to come soon!

Hugs,
Jennifer

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

We just got these new pictures of Mahlia that I just have to share. In two weeks I'll be in Addis Ababa, and a few days after that we'll be with the whole family for a week at my Mom's in Princeton. So looking forward to that time :-) For now we are just home from Calgary and head back there again on Sunday, and I take off for Addis from there. Its our whirlwind time of year!
Hope everyone is enjoying the first weeks of summer!

Friday, June 05, 2009

Well its official! We 'passed court' yesterday in Ethiopia and Mahlia is officially our daughter! I am going to Addis Ababa to bring her home from July 6th-11th. My cousin Kim is coming with me which I am very excited about. I'm somewhat dreading leaving Mike and the kids as I have never left them for more then a night or two, but Mike assures me they will have a blast, and I'm sure they will. Ethiopian law says that you cannot post pic's of your child until they pass court and officially become your child, so now I can show off our beautiful baby girl!

Sunday, January 11, 2009

In case you didn't notice the side bar :-) Mike and I are excited to announce that soon we will be A Dozen Crooks! This spring we will welcome home baby Mahlia from Ethiopia. Mahlia was born October 5thth, 2008 in Hosana, Ethiopia and is currently residing at The Praise House in Addis Ababa. We hope to bring her home in April and are so looking forward to having a baby again. Its been a while :-) Due to Ethiopian Law we cannot post pictures of her until the adoption is final, but believe me she is beautiful! 
Our African Adventure

We have had quite a whirlwind month around here,  On December 17 the entire Crooks Family, Mike and I and all 9 kids, set off on what was to be the best trip of our lives! Mike and I, along with Catherine, Ciara, Hunter, Ruby, Kai, Sophie and Holly flew from Spokane to Seattle where we met up with Lauren and Sean. We then all flew on the red eye to Paris where we hit the ground running! We mastered the Paris metro and spent the day at the Louvre (which Lauren swears I mis-pronounce every time I say it.....) before falling into bed. The next morning we flew another 10 hours to Johannesburg where we met up with my Mom (Granny "O") and her wonderful sister Anne-Marie. We arrived at the hotel just after midnight and after a few hours of sleep we boarded the Blue Train at 8:00am the following morning. The Blue Train is an amazing and elegant train that runs from Pretoria (near Jo'burg)  to Cape Town giving its passengers 24 hours of amazing luxury en route, which after 3+ days of travel we REALLY appreciated! We all then spent 3 days in Cape Town (S. Africa)and took in wonderful sights like the Cape of Good Hope, Seal Island, and the amazing African Penguins. We even got robbed, all such an adventure! We then flew on to Nairobi, where the highlight of our trip began.

After spending a night at the Karen Blixen Hotel outside Nairobi we flew on a small 14 passenger plane to the Masai Mara where we were met at the airstrip by the most amazing group of guides, who soon became very good friends. Our guides were Maria and Anthony (who are wonderful people), and their two kids George and Challa (who our children adored)came along as they were on Christmas Holiday. Our third guide was our very own Crocodile Dundee, a retired school teacher Dave who the kids grew to adore. We drove on to our first camp which was amazing! Our tents were on a river, right in the bush, right in the middle of all the local wildlife. While we were tent camping for sure, we were still spoiled rotten by the camp staff lead by the amazing native man Arthur. Nobody knows how old he is for sure (even him!), but he was truly amazing! From the wonderful food, to the terrific company, to the lions roaring at dinner time, to the local drink Amarhula, the the showers that were heated to a perfect temperature in a huge cauldron and had the most wonderful smokey smell, camp life was unforgettable! We miss it every day! We started each day at 5:45 when we were brought local coffee in our tents, and piled into the three Landrovers to begin the morning Safari. We soon had the Landrovers labeled, we had the "Education Car" driven by Anthony, and Granny O and Lauren were fixtures in this car. The second car, driven by Maria was the "Discussion Car", where Ciara, Mike, and I were fixtures. The third car was Dave's "Party Car", and that it was! Holly, Hunter, Ruby, and Kai were the fixtures of that rig, and believe it or not they all drove at one time or another! Catherine, Sean, Sophie, and Auntie Anne Maria were floaters, choosing to experience a different car every day, depending on their mood :-) We drove around and saw the most amazing and beautiful wildlife, got very up close and personal with everything from lions to elephants, and ended up back at camp by about 10:00ish for camp breakfasts. It was either due to the cooking, or the fact that we were starving by then, that camp breakfasts were always delicious! We then spent the days hanging about camp, hiking, fishing, napping, talking, etc until evening when we took off for another 3+ hour "game drive". Home in time for a scrumptious dinner at 7:30ish, some great wine, and lots of fun conversations, we were all sound asleep by 10:00.

One of the highlights of our time on the Masai Mara was our visit to a local Masai Village. The village was made entirely of cow dung, so the aroma was a bit hard to take for those of us not used to it, but the rest of it was beautiful. The men and women were friendly and absolutely beautiful. The children were smiling and happy. It was life changing to see people with so little, so incredibly content and happy. A truly different world, one that is for sure hard at times, but is very special.

After a brief 48 hours at Loldia House at Lake Naivasha (ask Lauren about that that trip:-), we were back on our little plane flying to our next camp in Shaba which is on North Cental Kenya. This camp was on a big river (home to many crocodiles) and in a much more desert climate. It was one of the most beautiful places I have ever seen. Here we spent the days in a similar fashion to our days on the Mara, but add in some real fun in the local river, a water hike to a beautiful water fall,and the building of the most wonderful sand castle I've ever seen! Here is where we spent New Years Eve, and brought in 2009. What a fun night that was, and one Hunter and his friend George will likely not forget for quite a while! To wake up to 2009 in our tent in Africa was something I will never forget!

We were all sad to leave Africa, but hit the ground running again in Paris where we had a 24 hour lay over again. We were able to visit Notre Dame and the Eiffel Tower before boarding our flight back to Seattle. Our whole gang is VERY grateful to Granny "O" for this trip of a lifetime. We have all fallen in love with Africa, and we are all trying to figure out how quickly we will get back there! For Mike and I to be able to share this 2 1/2 weeks with all 9 of our children, to watch them interact with such love given the different ways they have all joined our family, was such an incredible gift to us at parents, Thank you Granny O for that!

Here are some pic's of our great adventures:













Hunter playing in Shaba river












The entire gang and camp staff at our camp in Shaba, Kenya.
                                              Mike and I just loved Africa!












                                                                                            Chillin' in the river

   
















                                                                                                             The four oldest kids rock climbing
                                                 Ruby in the Shaba River












Ciara and Sophie outside the girls tent
                                                Mike and I in the river in Shaba












                                                                                               Our group on the Masai Mara












Our budding photographer Hunter











          
                                                                                           Sean joins in the Masai jumping competition!












Sophie and our wonderful guide Maria
                                                Camper Kai!
                                                 Mike and I just after sunrise on the Landrover
                                                  Ruby and Granny "O"












                                                                        
                                                                                                Ciara in camp












Children at the Masai Village
                                                   Granny "O" with the Masai women in 
                                                   the wonderful Masai village we visited